Is not the purpose of hookups the other person is actually emotionally unavailable? (Partly). That they’re only a phenomenal disembodied quasi-fantasy dick (or butt)?
Is actually DADT indicative of an open partnership? It sounds to me like an attempt at a fixed connection, with positive. For fast weeding from others who may want more, only say Ia€™m in a DADT connection and that will communicate all.